I talked yesterday in worship about the war on Christmas being essentially a war on the mission and purpose of God's Christ. Choosing Mary, in Nazareth, in Galilee, in Judea at the farthest corner of the Roman Empire...poor, temporarily homeless, hunted by the authorities, sneaking across the border to a foreign land, etc.--it's radical stuff. Go back and reread the first chapter of Luke. No wonder the powers and principalities of this world are willing to go to war in order to stop the momentum of the Kingdom Movement Jesus came to start.
But there is another way to think of the War on Christmas. And that is the war that is being waged by consumerism, corporate marketers, big box and online stores, a huge economic engine that looks more and more to the Christmas season to make ends meet. It's subtle and insidious. It takes advantage of our desire to give gifts of love and gratitude and turns it into something much more self-centered and contrived.
I came across a blog last week while working on the sermon and though I intended to quote it during the message, it got cut due to time. The author is Mark Sandlin and I'd like to quote one paragraph from his blog:
[Is there a] War on Christmas? [Or is there...]A war on what Christmas has become? A war on
worshiping consumerism in the sacred halls of Wal-Mart, Target, and Best Buy
while the world is swallowed up in the darkness of not having enough food to
eat, a place to live, clean water to drink, access to reasonable health care?
Sign me up, because I refuse to let the story of my faith be co-opted by
corporations who only wish to convince us that we are privileged and we do
deserve what we have more than othesr and we should revel in our abundance even
as we celebrate the birth of the child who laid in a feeding trough, who lived
his life with no place to lay his head, who told us that “just as you do it
unto the least of these so to you do it unto me," a child who gave up his very life
that we might understand what true love looks like. 
I'm not entirely sure how we fight against this attack on our hearts and on the heart of our Christmas worship, but fight against we must.  I would begin with prayer, in fact, I will begin with prayer.  And after that it wouldn't hurt to try and gain a little perspective on our compulsion to spend and give to a certain level rather than to share the greatest gift--the gift of ourselves, offered in love.  It's not easy, especially if you have young children.  But it is especially important, if you have young children, to make sure that they know the deepest meaning of Christ's birth.  It's a whole lot easier to set up traditions when your kids are young then when they've grown accustomed to big expensive gifts, or toy after toy after  toy.  I think this might be one front on this war that we can actually win if we are clear what is at stake and take it seriously enough to do something about it.
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